When you suppress your emotions, you are negatively affecting your immune system too. Once you face and release your own psychological pain and suffering, your remaining physical health and overall human experience dramatically improves
– Brian Cimins
I’m 86 years old and sadly I’m basically sitting on my death bed…
I have millions of dollars in the bank –
but I can’t BUY Health to Save My Life now.
I had a family and millions of fans around the world – but I’m all alone now…
Not even my children or long estranged wife or brother stand around my deathbed
I LIVED MY LIFE WRONG AND I DON’T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU.
IF YOU LISTEN AND TAKE EVASIVE ACTION,
I CAN HELP YOU CHANGE YOUR FUTURE…
The following few moments may very well change your life…
and I wish someone had told me this when I was YOUR age….
Money is NOT EVIL by itself, its just paper with perceived value to obtain other things we value in other ways.
IF NOT MONEY – WHAT IS EVIL YOU MAY ASK?
Evil is the unquenchable, obsessive and moral bending desire for MORE.
EVIL is the bottomless, soulless and obsessive-compulsive pursuit of some pot of gold at the end of some rainbow which doesn’t exist
EVIL is having a PRICE tag for your HEART and SOUL in exchange for Financial Success at ANY cost.
EVIL is trying to BUY happiness, again and again, until all of those fake, short lived mirages of emotions are gone.
IMAGINE HAVING IT ALL — ONLY TO LOSE IT ALL…
YOU ARE NOW BROKE – all the money is gone, what do you have?
The only solution to your madness and happiness was acquiring MORE
Now you have NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE FAKE HAPPINESS…
NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE MORE SO…WHO ARE YOU NOW?
Where are all the people NOW who you thought were your friends while the money was flowing in?
You might have lost your family, friends and mostly everyone in the world thinks you are a self centered, egotistical asshole.
Why? Because of YOUR endless pursuit for MORE clouded your mind and diverted you from your TRUE PURPOSE IN LIFE!
DOES THIS HIT AN EMOTIONAL CHORD IN YOU?
DID IT DEPRESS OR SADDEN YOU?
…I ALMOST SAID GOOD, but I say this ONLY because I want YOU TO CHANGE!!
I’m not saying you can’t be financially successful;
I’m SAYING HAVE A GREATER PURPOSE IN LIFE well beyond the Pursuit of Financial Success.
Your Soul is SCREAMING for you to answer your TRUE calling
You can CHANGE today if you redefine what SUCCESS is to you.
You can transform your damaged relationships and build new ones.
You can forgive yourself and others who’ve hurt you
you can become a leader by mentoring with others who you aspire to be like.
You can re-balance your priorities in life.
You can heal your marriage and recreate a stronger LOVE than you ever thought possible.
You can become the best parent possible at ANY age – even 86, but don’t WAIT until then…
You will always be able to make more money, BUT you CANNOT make more time.
One day, just like me, you will DIE too…
What do YOU want to be remembered for?
What can YOU do for others to make the world a better place?
What is YOUR true purpose on this Earth?
We are ALL dying – but only a small select few are truly LIVING.
You can step out of the Shadows into the LIGHT.
You were meant for GREATNESS
You were meant for MORE than just what you do for a living.
You are an eternal being meant to INSPIRE AND HELP THE WORLD!
——LET’S GET IT RIGHT ONCE AND FOR ALL IN THIS LIFETIME…
TODAY, YOU STEP INTO THE WORLD WHERE TRUE LOVE EXISTS
AND YOU FINALLY REALIZE THAT LOVE IN FACT, IS “THE MORE” YOU’VE WANTED YOUR WHOLE LIFE
JUST LOVE MORE AND MORE,
EVERY DAY IN EVERY WAY
NEVER GIVE UP,
regardless of how challenging your destiny and life will be…
The World really needs you now more than ever…
Together, with Love, Compassion and faith in HUMANITY, WE WILL DEFEAT EVIL, ONCE AND FOR ALL!
I found this OLD video today, shot on Saturday, May 19, 2012 as part of an Interview about what Life Coaching was and dealing with the TRIALS, TRIBULATION and general suffering in life.
Hope it brings some insight to you, like it did to me –
I felt like I watched it for the FIRST time today.
Topic: Love vs. Evil Heart Check with
Life Coach Brian Cimins
“Don’t Fear Ides of March Doomsday,
Just Surround Yourself with Loving People
and Treat Them Right” – Brian Cimins
“We need to make sure people increase and magnify the LOVE in their life” – Brian Cimins
“If everyone was nice in the world, you wouldn’t understand what bad, mean (or evil) was, it would be confusing. You wouldn’t have anything to compare against.” – Brian Cimins, http://YourStrategyCoach.com
“If you are doing the right thing when no one is looking, that’s YOUR true self.” – Brian Cimins
We are ONE family under Nanny and Pop, Indivisible because of our LOVE!
Life News that’s tough to bear, but in reality, just a hard part of LIFE
My Nanny, Carol Emma Russo passed away on Monday, March 4, 2013 at around 10:20 PM. She was 84-years-old was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer diagnosis with only six months to live for an amazingly blessed additional 4 years, 10 months and 2 weeks. She was a warrior and an inspiration. She loved her family more than anything else in her life and she missed her beloved husband, Louis Thomas Russo who passed away October 2008.
Nanny decided against Chemotherapy. On the Car ride home from the Sloan Kettering, she told me, “Brian, I’m not taking that Chemo shit. I get sick from Aspirin, if I only have six months to live, I don’t want to be throwing up the whole time.” Nanny’s doctor only gave her Vitamin B12 shots weekly and lots of Cortisone Shots to keep her dancing at weddings that she kept living for. Nanny often spoke of the “power of love” and how it kept her alive. Nanny got to witness the birth of four amazing children, Phyllis, Tom, and Barbara who all helped create one amazing family unit.
Nanny’s heart exponentially grew with Love 8 separate times in her life with her prized Grandchildren, Paul, Brian, Tommy, Rob, Vickie, Louis, Michele and Jaclyn. She was blessed with several extra years to witness great weddings and her heart kept growing with great grand children Emily, Jonathan, Logan, Kaylee, Jordan, and Dominic.
On Monday night, Nanny passed away was just 90 minutes after a beautiful guided meditation I did with my mother, Phyllis. I took the kids home and at around 9:45 PM, Logan randomly says, “Nanny is disappearing from this Earth and going to Heaven.” I replied, “Now?” and he replied, “Yes” – I quickly looked over my shoulder and out the window to a truck approaching, it was my Mom’s best friend. I called my Mom – I mean, I had just left a little while earlier, but Logan shook me down to the soul with his comment – My Mom was crying. I knew the end was near.
The moment Lucia got home from school, I raced over to find my Mom, Best Friend and care taker drinking tea in my Mom’s kitchen. My mother told me, “My sister Dorie told us to go have Tea, that we needed a break.” I sat with them for a few brief moments and then I went to show my Mom the video of Logan talking about Nanny and just as I pressed PLAY, the iPhone battery died. I casually said, “It died” (meaning the phone) and my mind and focus immediately went towards Nanny. This was one of the moments I had prepared emotionally for, but it was still hard.
Six years ago, I held Poppy’s hand as he passed away and it stuck with me, the beautiful feeling of the energy movement – feeling someone pass over to the next stage in their life in a sense.
Over the past few years, I realized and experienced what TRUE love was possible, just through touch or a pleasant thought, positive reinforcement or pleasant story telling opportunity.
I entered the room expecting to hear laboring breathing, but she was peaceful. I sat there and held Nanny’s hand for a few moments, said some prayers and mindful meditation and placed my head and ear over her heart, just to hear it beat three last times. I sat there for a few minutes in shock – I didn’t know what to do, but I kept my calm and wouldn’t let go of her hand until I felt a similar emotional feeling I experienced with Pop just six years ago. Then my Mom walked in…and my focus to comfort her became my main focus. Nanny was already off on her next adventure in life, to reunite with her beloved husband in the after life, in heaven, in her consciousness – whatever awaits us after life, I know she found him.
She left this Earth knowing everyone loved her and she pulsated that love in every action, breath and heart beat. Now, it’s OUR turn to expand our love in our life for our children and future generations. We can SHOW LOVE above and beyond any other emotion on the planet and FORGIVE yourself and others.
Thank you for loving me so much Nanny, thank you for trying to love EVERYONE who ever came into your life as much as you did. We will make YOU proud, we will make our FAMILY proud and LOVE each other more every day, in every way. Until we meet again beautiful…hope you are already dancing with Poppy in Heaven (or whatever beautiful place awaits us all). Love you Nanny, always and forever.
Please enjoy another “Positive Affirmation for Kids” with Logan John Cimins, 5-year-old son of Life Coach and Grapplers Quest founder, Brian Cimins
“Every Day in Every Way, I’m Getting Better”
– Logan Cimins inspired by American Monk, Burt Goldman
This great positive affirmation is inspired by one of my mentors, Burt Goldman, aka “The American Monk”. It can be used at ANY age, especially for people who’ve been sick or with some type of long term illness.
People who consistently wait for others to ask, “How are you doing?” or “How are you feeling?”, just to launch into a 30 minute conversation about how much pain they are in or how bad something hurts or aches. Complaining and reliving an “old injury” is just magnifying the problem to you and the listening party.
Complaining doesn’t allow you to focus on your progress, however big or small, you are just wallowing in your pain. I broke my back in a martial arts competition on December 2, 2000 and was nearly paralyzed. As a martial arts event promoter, I refused to let my scary story give a black eye to the sport. I set out to completely recreate my mental frame of mind to help others deal with challenging situations, something life always seems to deliver.
Even if you are in pain, please realize EVERYONE “suffers” in their own way. By responding with a more uplifting and inspirational response, even if you are in pain when the person asks, you will quickly accelerate your own healing, even if just in your mind – at least it’s a start. Start healing in your mind first and YOUR body will follow. You must believe in this, if you really want to live pain free.
Give it a try, start today and repeat this Affirmation and Mantra every day for 30 days, “Every Day in Every Way, I’m Getting Better”.
Until next time, BE positive 🙂
With your success and happiness in mind
Your Strategy Coach,
Brian J. Cimins
You must do the thing you think you cannot do–Eleanor Roosevelt
Our ultimate challenge or QUEST in life is the challenge and conquer our fears and come to the ultimate realization how powerful we truly are. Living in fear or displaying anger, jealously or resentment or with a guilty conscious (or subsconscious) is not living your life to it’s fullest potential. Living in a horrible relationship for fear of “facing the world with failure of divorce” is much worse than the actual work it takes to fix and face the REAL issues. Many actions, like infidelity or secretive relationships are symptoms of a super unhealthy relationship, to the core. Doing the right thing when no one is looking is one thing everyone should aspire to attain. When you live in freedom from only doing good things and live a “cleaner life” and true to the ones you love, you are “enlightened” simply because nothing is weighing you down or holding you back, especially within the subsconscious mind.
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