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“Seek and ye’ shall find”…
I promised someone very special to me to share this story one day to help others suffering, mentally, physically and or spiritually in life.
I truly hope my testimony, somehow helps you find the path back to the way, the truth and the LIGHT.
Everyone’s QUEST in life takes them on a different path, but at 33 years old, as the owner of a successful martial arts event business called ‘Grapplers Quest’ (GrapplersQuest.com) with the wind in my sails, personally and professionally, my life at skin-deep levels to the outside world was outstanding. Inside anger, frustration, darkness, revenge and sadness ravaged my thoughts, obsessively, as if someone or something inside me was trying to destroy me.
Everyone has unseen challenges, but my challenges included undiagnosed “brain damage” which was destroying my family, friendships, marriage, life, and business, all at once. A severe back breaking injury and repeated concussion syndrome were the likely cause of the brain damage, but when I couldn’t be in a room with more than a few people, after years of being in rooms of thousands, I accepted something was truly wrong.
The journey back to heal my mind, body and soul began at the bottom “of the top” and one night I heard something that I could never forget, I remembered it word for word. This message started me on the journey back to God, but it was a strange, unnerving and mysterious message that opened my eyes to seek the TRUTH like my soul depended on it.
Here’s where it all began, “More Was Never Enough” by Brian Cimins…
Why should we talk about our weaknesses? There are many reasons we should share our weaknesses, first, to help us become aware of them, so we can start the process of improving and ultimately to get past them. Everyone has weaknesses and the man or woman who says, “I have no weakness”, proves they do by not being able to admit they do struggle with something in life. We can learn from our mistakes and improve our frame of mind. Proverbs 4:23 says, “Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts.”
Properly framing our mindset and awareness filled with loving kindness and helping others allows us to experience less suffering. Secondly, we can become an inspiration to others suffering, we can be the example of the “light at the end of the tunnel” so many speak of, but seldom come across in life. Someone can look at us and say, “if they recovered, so can I”.
I witnessed too many promoters, fighters and friends of friends commit suicide and when I started experiencing severe side effects of depression, sleep disorder, mood changes, memory loss and other PTSD-like symptoms from “minor brain damage”, after years of “seeking” on my own, I finally surrendered and fully turned to God.
My focus to heal my relationship with God was paramount and then miraculously, my brain, body, spirit and family started healing in my life. My business success wasn’t first for the first time in my life, God was finally first, and everything else worked itself out. “He restores my soul”. Everything changed for the better and all of the right people came into my life and as the years went on all of the right doctors, mentors and people made in the image of God started appearing in my life.
Finally, 2nd Corinthians Chapter 12, Verse 9 reads, “therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me”. When we are able to speak about our weaknesses, we are glorifying God and helping others along the way. That’s certainly enough for me and anyone else suffering with ANY affliction on this planet. Please FOCUS on your relationship with God first…
Here’s one of my many testimonials for the Glory of Jesus Christ…
Back in the Winter of 2015, I never thought playing air hockey with my son in my parent’s basement would change my life, but it did.
Well, in reality, God changed my life and left some bread crumbs for me to find the way out of darkness. Playing video games and table games with my son and daughter has been a wonderful pastime. As children sometimes do, Logan started hitting too hard and all of a sudden, the puck went flying off the table rattling into my Dad’s library size bookcase. It landed behind a forty-seven year old wedding picture of theirs.
Glancing at the old, stained and beat up photo, I thought of how long and beautifully my parent’s loved each other. I thought about how many trials and tribulations that they faced, that I never even knew about. I thought about how much they loved us and just how very strong, amazing parents Paul and Phyllis Cimins truly were and are today.
Seeing behind their smile, I realized they too also faced challenging times, wars and rumors of wars, gas price hikes and shortages, a President assassination, Cuban Missle Crisis, Cold War with Russia, business challenges, financial loss, hurricanes, earthquakes, volcanoes and more challenged than I could possibly imagine.
We were invited by the Van Hook family to come to a Night of Worship at Jacksonville Chapel (http://ChapelNJ.org) in September of 2015 and met some of the best Christian mentors, Pastors, Team Leaders, and Volunteers including the Van Hook family, who’ve been our expanded family in Christ as we grow, learn and serve others together.
At nearly forty years old, I am finally beginning to understand and even comprehend how they were also able to get through all of the trials and tribulations in life. They laid their problems, their hopes and their dreams at the feet of Jesus. My parents independent and unified faith in Jesus got them through it all. I witnessed by dad’s loyal dedication to Bible study, outreach ministry and teaching children. My father is Presbyterian and my mother was Catholic, but irregardless of their Christian Sect, they were two of the most amazing examples of Christians I’d ever met. They lived by example, not by jamming it down our throats, forced prayers, mandatory Catholic schools or any other forcible way to show me the path. They lived it and prayed to God that one day, God would give me the same gift of grace they received in life.
Glancing at the book shelf, I saw more than one hundred books in Christian study from his Children Team Leadership development programs and years of devotion to learn. I was a little embarrassed that this was my first time realizing my dad was a well studied Christian leader and teacher of the Word of God through sixty or more years of study. Back to the action…the Air Hockey puck stood on it’s side in front of the right book for me called “God’s Psychiatry” by Dr. Charles Allen, a four scripture and prayer based book which clearly lays out the “Prescription to Cure Depression”.
This version was discontinued in 1957 (newer versions are now available), but contained just four prayers and verses including The Ten Commandments (Exodus), The Lord’s Prayer (Book of Matthew), The Beatitudes and the 23rd Psalm explained in heart and soul filled detail with tons of early 19th century examples, parables and lessons in over nearly 200 pages.
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THE PATH BACK TO GOD: I’d been studying the Bible for five solid years plus eighteen years of going to church, I realized, I never really understood, even the most common prayers or verses, fully or it was memorized in my brain, but not yet written on my heart.
Learning Bible hermeneutics training with Pastor Andrew Rappaport (http://StrivingForEternity.org) showed me which Bible offers the closest translation to the original Greek and I’ve been working within the MacArthur Study Bible that Pastor Andrew gave to me nearly a year ago. His bible study and world religion courses along with Public Minister training has been an absolutely amazing addition to learn what it means to be a Christian. Check out his courses and Free Videos at: http://StrivingForEternity.org
Studying, Listening to and writing these four prayers in my heart along with the grace from God lifted an emotional dark cloud that lasted nearly half of my life. I was lost and now I am found. It finally made sense to my heart, mind and soul. From where I was to where I am now, my vow to God was, “help heal me and I’ll share it with the world”. During my Faith Community Health Partnership training and outreach, I was able to share the gospel, not just from memory, but from the heart of flesh.
The hardest thing to admit for a person suffering with a mental disorder or brain damage is to admit it’s not just physical, it’s more of a spiritual challenge and the hardest thing to face is that’s all it is in 95% of the times. None of us are perfect and if we admit our faults, our sins, turn away from our old ways and towards God, our whole life can change.
We must develop our spiritual and emotional intelligence to get through life with our soul intact. We must study the Word of God to find the path out of the darkness into the light through our faith in Jesus.
My Indiana Jones-like journeys to various continents and remote islands to “cure myself” led me to the ends of the earth and well off the path. Deuteronomy 30:4 says, “Even if you have been banished to the most distant land under the heavens, from there the LORD your God will gather you and bring you back.” No one else could have saved me, gathered me back together, brought me back and restored my soul, only God can do that. Peace of mind is a gift of grace from God through faith in Jesus Christ.
After years of treating with nearly every form of Western Medicine, Eastern Medicine and Jungle Medicine, I finally submitted to the truth. Depression was truly a spiritual illness and there is only one “doctor” who can fix us, mind, body and soul and that’s Our Lord and Savior, the one true God, Jesus Christ.
If you haven’t accepted Him into your heart, please do so today for ONLY He can truly lift the darkness that plagues too many human beings. As Psalm 23 powerfully says, “He restores my soul”, if you’ve traveled to the ends of the world and still feel empty, Jesus is waiting for you to call Him.
HEALING THE PAST: I promised to tell the world that no plant medicine, no guru, no shaman, no sound healing tone or hidden secret society has the answer, they are just distractions from the TRUTH in Jesus Christ. Endless material desires coupled with learned motivation or inspiration without the right (Holy) spirit inside can be a fleeting shallow life, but when you are living the Word of God and then match the emotional intelligence training to change your interactions with EVERYONE you meet, it will only make you a better follower of Christ. Ezekiel 36:26 says, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh.”
PARENTS: Please watch this…
THE FUTURE: As a practicing Community Faith & Health Partner with Jacksonville Chapel, I’ve been to work with Pastor Mike Bethune, one of the best trainers for outreach ministry I’ve met. Through training with the Atlantic Healthcare Hospital System, I have been blessed with the opportunity to serve into the lives of some amazing human beings this last year.
In John 13:35, Jesus Christ said, “Love one another. As I have loved you, so also you must love one another. Bythisall menwill knowthatyou areMydisciples,ifyou loveone another.” Follow Him, the way, the truth and the LIFE and your whole present, future and eternity will change forever.
“God’s Prescription to defeat Depression” for me was within the 2,000 pages of the Holy Bible and getting to know Jesus through His Word. The lessons helped me find true forgiveness, helped heal my marriage, improved my role as a husband and father, helped me successfully relaunch multiple businesses and helped heal many of my human relationships and mistakes of the past. We are all prodigal children to God, He knows what you want before you ask Him, He just wants you to ask and get to know Him and serve your fellow human beings, because WE are all made in the image of God.
It has allowed me to find Christian mentors and most uplifting of all…taught me the PATH out of the tunnel of darkness is SERVING God first, then OTHERS. We must love God first, love your family second and everything else will work itself out. Pray and increase your faith every day in every way and NEVER GIVE UP. The world really needs YOU now more than ever!
AUDIO BOOK SERIES: I created this audiobook program to serve as a Chaplain Tool and serve all of the lost, forgotten, depressed and lost souls and released it FREE of charge as a YouTube based prayer tool for those in need.
No one in the world needs to buy it, all of the videos with full audio have been uploaded to YouTube for FREE, which helps those financially challenged, who need Jesus the most in hours of suffering and desperation.
For every 1,000 FREE plays or so on YouTube, someone buys it which we greatly appreciate. If you choose to do so, you can Download “God’s Prescription to Cure Depression” on iTunes, Google Play or Amazon
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I’ve been using “Gods Cure for Depression” program in Chaplain visits and Life Coaching over the past few months and saw tremendous change in my new recovering friends and fellow church family members.
The smallest bit of empathy, compassion and understanding mixed with the right prayer at the right time, can change your whole life.
God’s grace is that powerful! Sometimes, the prayers become our encouragement in the toughest times can make ALL of the difference. God is THAT powerful, he truly can restore OUR souls and give us the peace of mind and heart we all seek in life.
We are planning a Crowdsourcing campaign to purchase rechargeable MP3 Players and Headphones to become FREE uplifting visit gifts loaded with tons of Bible based Audio programs to visiting patients. I remembered that while people are at the hospital, sometimes the medication they are taking affects their memory. They may not remember everything you said, but they will remember something. One of my greatest mentors in Chaplain training said, “Just share the Word of God and use a select few additional words if necessary”.
Please share these videos with people you love and on social media, they could help someone get on the path. God Bless you always and forever, even until the end of the time.
HOW TO USE “God’s Prescription to Cure Depression” Program Inspired by The Holy Bible and “God’s Psychiatry”, Produced by Brian Cimins
Start by watching, listening and or reading PSALM 23, five times daily for seven days, it will become written in and on your heart and soul by week’s end.
Psalm Twenty Three begins
“The Lord is my shepherd,
I shall not want
He makes me lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside quiet waters.
He restores my soul;
He guides me in the paths of righteousness for His name’s sake
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I fear no evil for You are with me;
Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
You have anointed my head with oil;
My cup overflows.
Surely goodness and loving kindness will follow me all the days of my life,
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord…forever.”
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2. Step 2: Choose to make your life God centered rather than self-focused and continue to study the Bible and slowly start to Help and Serve others…
The Ten Commandments from the Holy Bible
Exodus Chapter 20 begins…
Then God spoke all these words, saying
I am the Lord Your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery
You shall have no other gods before Me
You shall not for yourself an idol or any likeness of what is in heaven or in the water under the earth. You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord Your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me but showing loving kindess to thousands, to those who Love Me and keep My commandments.
You shall not take the name of the Lord Your God in vain, for the Lord will not leave him unpunished who takes His Name in vain.
Remember the Sabbath Day, to keep it Holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work but the seventh day is a Sabbath Day of the Lord Your God. In it, you shall not do any work, you or your son or your daughter, your male or female servant or your cattle of your sojourners who stays with you. For in six days, the Lord made the Heavens and the earth, the sea and all that is in them, and rested on the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath Day and make it Holy.
Honor Your Mother and Your Father, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord Your God gives you.
You shall not murder
You Shall not commit adultery
You shall not steal
You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor
You shall not covet your neighbor’s house, you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife or his male servant or his female servant or his ox or his donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor.
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Step 3. Say this simple prayer once every day when you rise…”The Lord’s Prayer”:
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Lastly was The Beatitudes from Book of Matthew’s Sermon on the Mount by Jesus Christ
Step 4: Please fully accept and realize that you and many of us can and will suffer. Look at the Book of Job for a true example of facing adversity with faith alone. Suffering comes in all shapes and never the same for two different people. This prayer massively increased my awareness that there is blessing, even in persecution, like the prophets who were before you. I listened to this during every sunset for 30 days.
“The world knew me as a martial arts promoter for the sport of Mixed Martial Arts, Grappling and Jiu Jitsu, but God helped me become a peacemaker through tremendous trials and tribulation in life. Everyone faces challenges in life, how we handle them and our relationship with God will teach us how to face adversity, how to show loving kindness, how to show compassion and increase patiences, how to master forgiveness and willingness to help others. Sometimes if we are not willing to humble ourselves and surrender to God, He will do it for you, as He did for me. My return to the top will be by God’s will alone and all the Glory of Success will be for God alone. Simply believe!” – Brian Cimins (http://BrianCimins.com)
The Book of Matthew Chapter 5, “The Beatitudes” begin
“When Jesus saw the crowds, He went up to the Mountain; and after He sat down, His disciples Came to Him. He opened His mouth and began to teach them, saying, “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for their’s is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall inherit the earth.
Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God
Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called Sons of God
Blessed are those who have persecuted for the sake of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven
Blessed are you when people insult you and persecute you, and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.
Rejoice and be glad, for your reward in heaven is great; for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.
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Step 5: Get into a Bible based church in your area, visit them ALL and find the one that fits the best on your path to Christ
Step 6: Join a small group, an outreach ministry or family support group within your church to meet and greet with fellow Christians to mentor and befriend.
Step 7: Seek Christian mentors, theologians, Pastors and other leaders who will help guide you on the path to Jesus Christ such as the additional resources below.
ADDITIONAL VIDEO RESOURCES to Learn about Religions, Christianity and Jesus Christ:
Pastor John MacArthur, one of the mentors to MANY of my mentors
Introduction to the Major Western Religions with Andrew Rappaport
BEWARE of False Teachers and Prophets – my friend, Pastor Justin Peters is known as “SPIRITUAL BATMAN” for his heroic journey to tell the truth about “prosperity preachers”
Suffering with Addiction or Alcoholism, FREE Audiobook, “12 Ways To Solve Your Problem” by Dr. Charles L. Allen:
Thank you for listening and reading and Thank You Jesus for all you’ve done for us in eternity already and for healing and empowering me to share this to the world. Please share the direct link with people who love and care about at: http://RealChristianMeditation.com
P.S. If you want to know who I promised to tell, it was Jesus Christ, the same One who found me at the bottom at the end of the earth…GLORY BE TO GOD, “He Restores My Soul”
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LASTLY…because I also promised…this is a WATCHMAN WARNING AGAINST PLANT MEDICINES AYAHUASCA, HUACHUMA and other SHAMAN “Brews for the Soul”…
If you are still reading this, THANK YOU, secondly, here’s a WARNING for all lost seekers…if anyone ever starts telling you about “opening up their third eye”, “talking to the dead” or this enlightening trip to the Jungles of Iquitos, Peru, please do not be deceived, for they have already been deceived and call to deceive others…please watch these last two videos.
The Next Two videos might seem “out of place” or strange, but I’m posting these for my brothers and sisters who still visit Shamans in the Jungles and Mountains of far off lands for “Spirit Quests”…if you truly “seek the truth”, please watch these.
Truth about Ayahuasca and plant medicines:
SATAN is the greatest deceiver and the greatest coming deception in the World would be to “meet an ALIEN”, before they appear, know it’s a DEMON…”demons” are real in unseen realms we are never supposed to visit, but many “seek the beast”, but know down to your SOUL, that all “evil entities” flee with the name of our Lord and Savior, JESUS CHRIST.
Please share and enter “Through the Wormhole” of Your Heart Consciousness. Thank you for all your support over the years.
– Your Strategy Coach,
Brian Cimins
I’m 86 years old and sadly I’m basically sitting on my death bed…
I have millions of dollars in the bank –
but I can’t BUY Health to Save My Life now.
I had a family and millions of fans around the world – but I’m all alone now…
Not even my children or long estranged wife or brother stand around my deathbed
I LIVED MY LIFE WRONG AND I DON’T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU.
IF YOU LISTEN AND TAKE EVASIVE ACTION,
I CAN HELP YOU CHANGE YOUR FUTURE…
The following few moments may very well change your life…
and I wish someone had told me this when I was YOUR age….
Money is NOT EVIL by itself, its just paper with perceived value to obtain other things we value in other ways.
IF NOT MONEY – WHAT IS EVIL YOU MAY ASK?
Evil is the unquenchable, obsessive and moral bending desire for MORE.
EVIL is the bottomless, soulless and obsessive-compulsive pursuit of some pot of gold at the end of some rainbow which doesn’t exist
EVIL is having a PRICE tag for your HEART and SOUL in exchange for Financial Success at ANY cost.
EVIL is trying to BUY happiness, again and again, until all of those fake, short lived mirages of emotions are gone.
IMAGINE HAVING IT ALL — ONLY TO LOSE IT ALL…
YOU ARE NOW BROKE – all the money is gone, what do you have?
The only solution to your madness and happiness was acquiring MORE
Now you have NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE FAKE HAPPINESS…
NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE MORE SO…WHO ARE YOU NOW?
Where are all the people NOW who you thought were your friends while the money was flowing in?
You might have lost your family, friends and mostly everyone in the world thinks you are a self centered, egotistical asshole.
Why? Because of YOUR endless pursuit for MORE clouded your mind and diverted you from your TRUE PURPOSE IN LIFE!
DOES THIS HIT AN EMOTIONAL CHORD IN YOU?
DID IT DEPRESS OR SADDEN YOU?
…I ALMOST SAID GOOD, but I say this ONLY because I want YOU TO CHANGE!!
I’m not saying you can’t be financially successful;
I’m SAYING HAVE A GREATER PURPOSE IN LIFE well beyond the Pursuit of Financial Success.
Your Soul is SCREAMING for you to answer your TRUE calling
You can CHANGE today if you redefine what SUCCESS is to you.
You can transform your damaged relationships and build new ones.
You can forgive yourself and others who’ve hurt you
you can become a leader by mentoring with others who you aspire to be like.
You can re-balance your priorities in life.
You can heal your marriage and recreate a stronger LOVE than you ever thought possible.
You can become the best parent possible at ANY age – even 86, but don’t WAIT until then…
You will always be able to make more money, BUT you CANNOT make more time.
One day, just like me, you will DIE too…
What do YOU want to be remembered for?
What can YOU do for others to make the world a better place?
What is YOUR true purpose on this Earth?
We are ALL dying – but only a small select few are truly LIVING.
You can step out of the Shadows into the LIGHT.
You were meant for GREATNESS
You were meant for MORE than just what you do for a living.
You are an eternal being meant to INSPIRE AND HELP THE WORLD!
——LET’S GET IT RIGHT ONCE AND FOR ALL IN THIS LIFETIME…
TODAY, YOU STEP INTO THE WORLD WHERE TRUE LOVE EXISTS
AND YOU FINALLY REALIZE THAT LOVE IN FACT, IS “THE MORE” YOU’VE WANTED YOUR WHOLE LIFE
JUST LOVE MORE AND MORE,
EVERY DAY IN EVERY WAY
AND
NEVER GIVE UP,
regardless of how challenging your destiny and life will be…
The World really needs you now more than ever…
Together, with Love, Compassion and faith in HUMANITY, WE WILL DEFEAT EVIL, ONCE AND FOR ALL!
Please download this Heartfelt fundraiser Song for All Parents of a Loving Child with Autism by Paul Cimins – 100% of Proceeds support Autism Radio 501c3 (http://AutismDonation.org). You can purchase “Hope Saves The Day for Autism” on iTunes here: http://bit.ly/AutismRadio – Now Available everywhere including Amazon MP3, Deezer, iHeartRadio, Amazon On Demand, Google Play, Spotify, Rdio and http://AutismRadio.org
NEW YORK, NY – AutismRadio, a 100% volunteer charitable organization helping families challenged with Autism since 2003 has released their first single on iTunes, “Hope Saves The Day” by Autism Radio founder and Host of the World’s First Autism Family Support Radio Network, Paul Cimins.
“Hope Saves The Day for Autism” – A Heartfelt Song for All Parents of a Loving Child with Autism by Paul Cimins – Available worldwide April 16 on iTunes, Amazon MP3, Deezer, iHeartRadio, Amazon On Demand, Google Play, Spotify, Rdio and http://AutismRadio.org – 100% of Proceeds Donated to 501c3
BEAUTIFUL STORY: Paul Cimins, Founder of Autism Radio and Host of Autism Family Support Network, “Hope Saves The Day”, wrote the song as a poem in 2005 for his amazing 9-year-old son with Autism, Jonathan Cimins. The new single “Hope Saves The Day” is a truly beautiful rendition of a communication between a Father and His Non-Verbal Son with Autism. The unspoken emotional pain and suffering that many parents silently suffer in the Autism community is not addressed enough. Families stay at home because they cannot emotionally deal with the criticism or potential public outbreak. “People who don’t know what Autism is can be really cruel, we’re here to change that, bring families out of the shadows and into the Light,” commented Paul Cimins.
After support from his family and brother, Brian Cimins (http://CoachingForAutism.org), he finally produced the full song to help his son “hear his voice”, because Jonathan hasn’t spoken since his 18-month-old Vaccine booster shot. 100% of Proceeds Donated to http://AutismRadio.org (501c3) A Heartfelt Song for All Parents of a Loving Child with Autism
LYRICS:
Every time I see your smile,
I wonder what you feel.
Every time you laugh or cry,
I wonder if it’s real.
You seem trapped inside
Please help me understand
What is your world like,
I want to feel your love,
I want to know what its like to Laugh and Play,
Imagine a thought that you cannot feel,
A tear trapped inside,
Imagine a sound that you cannot make
No matter how hard you tried.
I want you to know how I’m Feeling
I want you to know How it feels to be me
I wish you could look into my World and see how I see
REFRAIN:
Hold my hand and remind me,
To Hold on to Hope each Day
Let this Song Be My Voice
And Remember Hope Saves The Day
I want to show you what I see,
What kind of Life will I have,
What’s in store for me?
Don’t be afraid,
Just Love and Hold Me
I can be all that I can be.
With your Love I can do anything.
With your Love I can see the World
Like Rays of Light Shine upon me, inside of me
There You are Right By My Side
I will Love you to the End of Time.
REFRAIN:
Hold my hand and remind me,
To Hold on to Hope each Day
Let this Song Be My Voice
And Remember Hope Saves The Day
Although we totally oppose their action, their activities, we always can keep COMPASSION to not develop hatred towards the person. On that basis…to develop FORGIVENESS – Tenzin Gyatso, 14th Dalai Lama
Regardless of your religious beliefs, please put it aside for a brief moment.
The Dalai Lama shares his point of view that regardless of the enduring pain someone may cause you, YOU still control your own thoughts and response and ultimate actions. If someone is harming you, you don’t need to harm them back, it creates an endless cycle of pain and more suffering. Rather, realize that the person harming you probably is suffering more than you can imagine or fathom and it might be creating a tremendous amount of negative energy inside them causing their negative behavior. At a minimum, we can pray for them, show them compassion and possibly, one day, they will see the error in their ways and change for the better. Everyone makes mistakes in life, but casting stones at those people immediately shows a block towards forgiveness, which ultimately leads to happiness.
Please Keep on the TRUE path of happiness, control your thoughts (take a deep breath) and don’t let others actions, mean spirited words or hurtful actions take YOU off your destined path. Happiness is just around the corner…KEEP PUSHING FORWARD!
Do YOU Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
You are NEVER alone and someone LOVES you more than you’ll ever know. Suicide is a permanent solution to a TEMPORARY problem. This too shall pass my brothers and sisters – keep pushing, even blindly through the darkness, there is LIGHT ahead!
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In 2010, there were 38,364 reported suicide deaths. Governmental Agencies stopped doing studies because the numbers climb annually, they don’t want to admit this is a growing epidemic and now one of the leading Causes of Death in America.
An estimated 40,000 Suicides occurred in America in 2012 – that’s 109 fellow humans, friends and/or loved ones who gave up on life each day, just in America.
Please watch and SHARE this video to help SAVE one more LIFE possibly TODAY.
I’m posting this today, Friday, March 22, 2013 because Suicide Awareness Month isn’t until September and we’ll lose 17,864 or more beautiful souls with afflicted minds by August 31, 2013…
Please SHARE TO HELP Save Someone today. Share on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, email it, text it – just SHARE it.
Need help? In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
– In 2010 (latest available data), there were 38,364 reported suicide deaths.
– Suicide is the fourth leading cause of death for adults between the ages of 18 and 65 years in the United States.
– Currently, suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the United States.
– A person dies by suicide about every 14 minutes in the United States.
– Every day, approximately 105 Americans take their own life.
– Ninety percent of all people who die by suicide have a diagnosable psychiatric disorder at the time of their death.
– There are four male suicides for every female suicide, but three times as many females as males attempt suicide.
– There are an estimated 8-25 attempted suicides for every suicide death.
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Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts?
In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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—–>>>Youth
– Suicide is the fourth leading cause of death among those 5-14 years old.
– Suicide is the third leading cause of death among those 15-24 years old.
– Between the mid-1950s and the late 1970s, the suicide rate among U.S. males aged 15-24 more than tripled (from 6.3 per 100,000 in 1955 to 21.3 in 1977). Among females aged 15-24, the rate more than doubled during this period (from 2.0 to 5.2). The youth suicide rate generally leveled off during the 1980s and early 1990s, and since the mid-1990s has been steadily decreasing.
– Between 1980-1996, the suicide rate for African-American males aged 15-19 has also doubled.
– Risk factors for suicide among the young include suicidal thoughts, psychiatric disorders (such as depression, impulsive aggressive behavior, bipolar disorder, certain anxiety disorders), drug and/or alcohol abuse and previous suicide attempts, with the risk increased if there is situational stress and access to firearms.
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Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts?
In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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—–Older People
– The suicide rates for men rise with age, most significantly after age 65.
– The rate of suicide in men 65+ is seven times that of females who are 65+.
– The suicide rates for women peak between the ages of 45-54 years old, and again after age 75.
– About 60 percent of elderly patients who take their own lives see their primary care physician within a few months of their death.
– Six to 9 percent of older Americans who are in a primary care setting suffer from major depression.
– More than 30 percent of patients suffering from major depression report suicidal ideation.
– Risk factors for suicide among the elderly include: a previous attempt, the presence of a mental illness, the presence of a physical illness, social isolation (some studies have shown this is especially so in older males who are recently widowed) and access to means, such as the availability of firearms in the home.
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Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts?
In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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—– Depression
– Over 60 percent of all people who die by suicide suffer from major depression. If one includes alcoholics who are depressed, this figure rises to over 75 percent.
– Depression affects nearly 10 percent of Americans ages 18 and over in a given year, or more than 24 million people.
– More Americans suffer from depression than coronary heart disease (17 million), cancer (12 million) and HIV/AIDS (1 million).
– About 15 percent of the population will suffer from clinical depression at some time during their lifetime. Thirty percent of all clinically depressed patients attempt suicide; half of them ultimately die by suicide.
– Depression is among the most treatable of psychiatric illnesses. Between 80 percent and 90 percent of people with depression respond positively to treatment, and almost all patients gain some relief from their symptoms. But first, depression has to be recognized.
—– Alcohol and Suicide
– Ninety-six percent of alcoholics who die by suicide continue their substance abuse up to the end of their lives.
– Alcoholism is a factor in about 30 percent of all completed suicides.
– Approximately 7 percent of those with alcohol dependence will die by suicide.
—– Firearms and Suicide
– Although most gun owners reportedly keep a firearm in their home for “protection” or “self defense,” 83 percent of gun-related deaths in these homes are the result of a suicide, often by someone other than the gun owner.
– Firearms are used in more suicides than homicides.
– Death by firearms is the fastest growing method of suicide.
– Firearms account for 50 percent of all suicides.
—– Medical Illness and Suicide
– Patients who desire an early death during a serious or terminal illness are usually suffering from a treatable depressive condition.
– People with AIDS have a suicide risk up to 20 times that of the general population.
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Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts?
In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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The following LIST OF “MENTAL ILLNESSES” as listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) is the American Psychiatric Association’s standard reference for psychiatry which includes over 400 different definitions of mental disorders. If all of these “disorders” or “illnesses” can be treated by medication, why are the SUICIDE rates climbing each year? Please Read ALL the Psychiatric Prescriptions Warnings, many INCREASE SUICIDAL THOUGHTS…
Delirium tremens
Depersonalization disorder
Depressive disorder
Derealization disorder
Desynchronosis
Diogenes Syndrome
Dispareunia
Dissociative identity disorder (multiple personality disorder)
Dyslexia
Dysthymia
EDNOS
Encopresis
Ekbom’s Syndrome (Delusional Parasitosis)
Enuresis (not due to a general medical condition)
Erotomania
Exhibitionism
Factitious disorder
Fregoli delusion
Frotteurism
Fugue State
Ganser syndrome (due to a mental disorder)
Generalized anxiety disorder
General adaptation syndrome
Grandiose delusions
Hallucinogen-related disorder
Hallucinogen persisting perception disorder
Histrionic personality disorder
Huntington’s disease
Hypomanic episode
Hypochondriasis
Impulse control disorder
Impulse-control disorder not elsewhere classified
Inhalant abuse
Insomnia due to a general medical condition
Intermittent explosive disorder
Kleptomania
Korsakoff’s syndrome
Lacunar amnesia
Major depressive disorder
Major depressive episode
Male erectile disorder
Malingering
Manic episode
Mathematics disorder
Medication-related disorder
Melancholia
Minor depressive disorder
Minor depressive episode
Misophonia
Mixed episode
Mood disorder
Mood episode
Morbid jealousy
Munchausen’s syndrome
Munchausen’s syndrome by proxy
Multiple personality disorder (Dissociative identity disorder)
Narcissistic personality disorder
Neglect of child
Neuroleptic-related disorder
Nicotine withdrawal
Night eating syndrome
Nightmare disorder
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD)
Oneirophrenia
Opioid dependence
Opioid-related disorder
Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)
Pain disorder
Panic disorder
Paranoid personality disorder
Parasomnia
Parkinson’s Disease
Partner relational problem
Pathological gambling
Perfectionism
Persecutory delusion
Personality change due to a general medical condition
Personality disorder
Pervasive developmental disorder (PDD)
Phencyclidine (or phencyclidine-like)-related disorder
Phobic disorder
Phonological disorder
Physical abuse
Pica
Polysubstance-related disorder
Post-traumatic embitterment disorder (PTED)
Posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
Premature ejaculation
Primary hypersomnia
Primary insomnia
Psychogenic amnesia
Psychological factor affecting medical condition
Psychotic disorder
Pyromania
Reactive attachment disorder of infancy or early childhood
Reading disorder
Recurrent brief depression
Relational disorder
Residual schizophrenia
Retrograde amnesia
Rett’s disorder
Rumination syndrome
Sadomasochism
Schizoaffective disorder
Schizoid personality disorder
Schizophrenia
Schizophreniform disorder
Schizotypal personality disorder
Seasonal affective disorder
Sedative-, hypnotic-, or anxiolytic-related disorder
Selective mutism
Separation anxiety disorder
Severe mental retardation
Shared psychotic disorder
Sleep disorder
Sleep terror disorder
Sleepwalking disorder
Social anxiety disorder
Social phobia
Somatization disorder
Somatoform disorder
Specific phobia
Stendhal syndrome
Stereotypic movement disorder
Stuttering
Substance-related disorder
Tardive dyskinesia
Transient global amnesia
Trichotillomania
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Need help? Are you or someone you LOVE having Suicidal Thoughts?
In the U.S., call 1-800-273-8255 for 24 Hour, 7 Days a Week The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
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You are NEVER alone and someone LOVES you more than you’ll ever know. Suicide is a permanent solution to a TEMPORARY problem. This too shall pass my brothers and sisters – keep pushing, even blindly through the darkness, there is LIGHT ahead!
“Lincoln didn’t do great work because he solved the problem of his depression; the problem of his depression was all the more fuel for the fire of his great work.”
The great ones are challenged the most, because THEY can handle it. Giving up on life is too easy and no matter how bad things get, the world is a better place because of YOU and someone loves you more than you know.
Are YOU one of the great ones?
Are you challenged more right now more than ever?
Promise to keep fighting and keep pushing forward, AMERICA, your family and your friends need YOU more than ever!
We are ONE family under Nanny and Pop, Indivisible because of our LOVE!
Life News that’s tough to bear, but in reality, just a hard part of LIFE
My Nanny, Carol Emma Russo passed away on Monday, March 4, 2013 at around 10:20 PM. She was 84-years-old was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer diagnosis with only six months to live for an amazingly blessed additional 4 years, 10 months and 2 weeks. She was a warrior and an inspiration. She loved her family more than anything else in her life and she missed her beloved husband, Louis Thomas Russo who passed away October 2008.
Nanny decided against Chemotherapy. On the Car ride home from the Sloan Kettering, she told me, “Brian, I’m not taking that Chemo shit. I get sick from Aspirin, if I only have six months to live, I don’t want to be throwing up the whole time.” Nanny’s doctor only gave her Vitamin B12 shots weekly and lots of Cortisone Shots to keep her dancing at weddings that she kept living for. Nanny often spoke of the “power of love” and how it kept her alive. Nanny got to witness the birth of four amazing children, Phyllis, Tom, and Barbara who all helped create one amazing family unit.
Nanny’s heart exponentially grew with Love 8 separate times in her life with her prized Grandchildren, Paul, Brian, Tommy, Rob, Vickie, Louis, Michele and Jaclyn. She was blessed with several extra years to witness great weddings and her heart kept growing with great grand children Emily, Jonathan, Logan, Kaylee, Jordan, and Dominic.
On Monday night, Nanny passed away was just 90 minutes after a beautiful guided meditation I did with my mother, Phyllis. I took the kids home and at around 9:45 PM, Logan randomly says, “Nanny is disappearing from this Earth and going to Heaven.” I replied, “Now?” and he replied, “Yes” – I quickly looked over my shoulder and out the window to a truck approaching, it was my Mom’s best friend. I called my Mom – I mean, I had just left a little while earlier, but Logan shook me down to the soul with his comment – My Mom was crying. I knew the end was near.
The moment Lucia got home from school, I raced over to find my Mom, Best Friend and care taker drinking tea in my Mom’s kitchen. My mother told me, “My sister Dorie told us to go have Tea, that we needed a break.” I sat with them for a few brief moments and then I went to show my Mom the video of Logan talking about Nanny and just as I pressed PLAY, the iPhone battery died. I casually said, “It died” (meaning the phone) and my mind and focus immediately went towards Nanny. This was one of the moments I had prepared emotionally for, but it was still hard.
Six years ago, I held Poppy’s hand as he passed away and it stuck with me, the beautiful feeling of the energy movement – feeling someone pass over to the next stage in their life in a sense.
Over the past few years, I realized and experienced what TRUE love was possible, just through touch or a pleasant thought, positive reinforcement or pleasant story telling opportunity.
I entered the room expecting to hear laboring breathing, but she was peaceful. I sat there and held Nanny’s hand for a few moments, said some prayers and mindful meditation and placed my head and ear over her heart, just to hear it beat three last times. I sat there for a few minutes in shock – I didn’t know what to do, but I kept my calm and wouldn’t let go of her hand until I felt a similar emotional feeling I experienced with Pop just six years ago. Then my Mom walked in…and my focus to comfort her became my main focus. Nanny was already off on her next adventure in life, to reunite with her beloved husband in the after life, in heaven, in her consciousness – whatever awaits us after life, I know she found him. True Love always forgives and forgets.
She left this Earth knowing everyone loved her and she pulsated that love in every action, breath and heart beat. Now, it’s OUR turn to expand our love in our life for our children and future generations. We can SHOW LOVE above and beyond any other emotion on the planet and FORGIVE yourself and others.
Thank you for loving me so much Nanny, thank you for trying to love EVERYONE who ever came into your life as much as you did. We will make YOU proud, we will make our FAMILY proud and LOVE each other more every day, in every way. Until we meet again beautiful…hope you are already dancing with Poppy in Heaven (or whatever beautiful place awaits us all). Love you Nanny, always and forever.
Sample and Order “God’s Prescription to Cure Depression” on 
Glancing at the old, stained and beat up photo, I thought of how long and beautifully my parent’s loved each other. I thought about how many trials and tribulations that they faced, that I never even knew about. I thought about how much they loved us and just how very strong, amazing parents Paul and Phyllis Cimins truly were and are today.
tian study from his Children Team Leadership development programs and years of devotion to learn. I was a little embarrassed that this was my first time realizing my dad was a well studied Christian leader and teacher of the Word of God through sixty or more years of study. Back to the action…the Air Hockey puck stood on it’s side in front of the right book for me called “God’s Psychiatry” by Dr. Charles Allen, a four scripture and prayer based book which clearly lays out the “Prescription to Cure Depression”. 
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The hardest thing to admit for a person suffering with a mental disorder or brain damage is to admit it’s not just physical, it’s more of a spiritual challenge and the hardest thing to face is that’s all it is in 95% of the times. None of us are perfect and if we admit our faults, our sins, turn away from our old ways and towards God, our whole life can change.
“God’s Prescription to defeat Depression” for me was within the 2,000 pages of the Holy Bible and getting to know Jesus through His Word. The lessons helped me find true forgiveness, helped heal my marriage, improved my role as a husband and father, helped me successfully relaunch multiple businesses and helped heal many of my human relationships and mistakes of the past. We are all prodigal children to God, He knows what you want before you ask Him, He just wants you to ask and get to know Him and serve your fellow human beings, because WE are all made in the image of God.
I’ve been using “Gods Cure for Depression” program in Chaplain visits and Life Coaching over the past few months and saw tremendous change in my new recovering friends and fellow church family members.
“The world knew me as a martial arts promoter for the sport of Mixed Martial Arts, Grappling and Jiu Jitsu, but God helped me become a peacemaker through tremendous trials and tribulation in life. Everyone faces challenges in life, how we handle them and our relationship with God will teach us how to face adversity, how to show loving kindness, how to show compassion and increase patiences, how to master forgiveness and willingness to help others. Sometimes if we are not willing to humble ourselves and surrender to God, He will do it for you, as He did for me. My return to the top will be by God’s will alone and all the Glory of Success will be for God alone. Simply believe!” – Brian Cimins (
