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MUST HEAR Speech Entitled “More Was Never Enough” – Through the Wormhole of Heart Consciousness

Please share and enter “Through the Wormhole” of Your Heart Consciousness. Thank you for all your support over the years.
– Your Strategy Coach,
Brian Cimins
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MORE WAS NEVER ENOUGH Written by Brian Cimins (http://YourStrategyCoach.com)

I’m 86 years old and sadly I’m basically sitting on my death bed…
I have millions of dollars in the bank –
but I can’t BUY Health to Save My Life now.
I had a family and millions of fans around the world – but I’m all alone now…

Not even my children or long estranged wife or brother stand around my deathbed

I LIVED MY LIFE WRONG AND I DON’T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU.
IF YOU LISTEN AND TAKE EVASIVE ACTION,
I CAN HELP YOU CHANGE YOUR FUTURE…

The following few moments may very well change your life…
and I wish someone had told me this when I was YOUR age….

Money is NOT EVIL by itself, its just paper with perceived value to obtain other things we value in other ways.

IF NOT MONEY – WHAT IS EVIL YOU MAY ASK?
Evil is the unquenchable, obsessive and moral bending desire for MORE.
EVIL is the bottomless, soulless and obsessive-compulsive pursuit of some pot of gold at the end of some rainbow which doesn’t exist

EVIL is having a PRICE tag for your HEART and SOUL in exchange for Financial Success at ANY cost.

EVIL is trying to BUY happiness, again and again, until all of those fake, short lived mirages of emotions are gone.

IMAGINE HAVING IT ALL — ONLY TO LOSE IT ALL…
YOU ARE NOW BROKE – all the money is gone, what do you have?
The only solution to your madness and happiness was acquiring MORE
Now you have NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE FAKE HAPPINESS…

NO MORE MEANS TO ACQUIRE MORE
SO…WHO ARE YOU NOW?
Where are all the people NOW who you thought were your friends while the money was flowing in?
You might have lost your family, friends and mostly everyone in the world thinks you are a self centered, egotistical asshole.
Why? Because of YOUR endless pursuit for MORE clouded your mind and diverted you from your TRUE PURPOSE IN LIFE!

DOES THIS HIT AN EMOTIONAL CHORD IN YOU?

DID IT DEPRESS OR SADDEN YOU?

…I ALMOST SAID GOOD, but I say this ONLY because I want YOU TO CHANGE!!

I’m not saying you can’t be financially successful;
I’m SAYING HAVE A GREATER PURPOSE IN LIFE well beyond the Pursuit of Financial Success.

Your Soul is SCREAMING for you to answer your TRUE calling

You can CHANGE today if you redefine what SUCCESS is to you.
You can transform your damaged relationships and build new ones.
You can forgive yourself and others who’ve hurt you
you can become a leader by mentoring with others who you aspire to be like.
You can re-balance your priorities in life.
You can heal your marriage and recreate a stronger LOVE than you ever thought possible.

You can become the best parent possible at ANY age – even 86, but don’t WAIT until then…

You will always be able to make more money, BUT you CANNOT make more time.

One day, just like me, you will DIE too…
What do YOU want to be remembered for?
What can YOU do for others to make the world a better place?
What is YOUR true purpose on this Earth?

We are ALL dying – but only a small select few are truly LIVING.

You can step out of the Shadows into the LIGHT.
You were meant for GREATNESS
You were meant for MORE than just what you do for a living.
You are an eternal being meant to INSPIRE AND HELP THE WORLD!

——LET’S GET IT RIGHT ONCE AND FOR ALL IN THIS LIFETIME…

TODAY, YOU STEP INTO THE WORLD WHERE TRUE LOVE EXISTS
AND YOU FINALLY REALIZE THAT LOVE IN FACT, IS
“THE MORE” YOU’VE WANTED YOUR WHOLE LIFE

JUST LOVE MORE AND MORE,
EVERY DAY IN EVERY WAY
AND
NEVER GIVE UP,
regardless of how challenging your destiny and life will be…

The World really needs you now more than ever…
Together, with Love, Compassion and faith in HUMANITY, WE WILL DEFEAT EVIL, ONCE AND FOR ALL!

Rest in Peace Nanny – Carol Emma Russo – Brave Soul Who Faced Terminal Cancer with Pure Love and Vitamin B-12 Shots

We are ONE family under Nanny and Pop, Indivisible because of our LOVE!

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My Nanny, Carol Emma Russo passed away on Monday, March 4, 2013 at around 10:20 PM.  She was 84-years-old was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer diagnosis with only six months to live for an amazingly blessed additional 4 years, 10 months and 2 weeks.  She was a warrior and an inspiration.  She loved her family more than anything else in her life and she missed her beloved husband, Louis Thomas Russo who passed away October 2008. 

Nanny decided against Chemotherapy.  On the Car ride home from the Sloan Kettering, she told me, “Brian, I’m not taking that Chemo shit. I get sick from Aspirin, if I only have six months to live, I don’t want to be throwing up the whole time.”  Nanny’s doctor only gave her Vitamin B12 shots weekly and lots of Cortisone Shots to keep her dancing at weddings that she kept living for.  Nanny often spoke of the “power of love” and how it kept her alive.  Nanny got to witness the birth of four amazing children, Phyllis, Tom, and Barbara who all helped create one amazing family unit.

Nanny’s heart exponentially grew with Love 8 separate times in her life with her prized Grandchildren, Paul, Brian, Tommy, Rob, Vickie, Louis, Michele and Jaclyn.  She was blessed with several extra years to witness great weddings and her heart kept growing with great grand children Emily, Jonathan, Logan, Kaylee, Jordan, and Dominic. 

On Monday night, Nanny passed away was just 90 minutes after a beautiful guided meditation I did with my mother, Phyllis.  I took the kids home and at around 9:45 PM, Logan randomly says, “Nanny is disappearing from this Earth and going to Heaven.”  I replied, “Now?” and he replied, “Yes” – I quickly looked over my shoulder and out the window to a truck approaching, it was my Mom’s best friend. I called my Mom – I mean, I had just left a little while earlier, but Logan shook me down to the soul with his comment – My Mom was crying. I knew the end was near.

The moment Lucia got home from school, I raced over to find my Mom, Best Friend and care taker drinking tea in my Mom’s kitchen.  My mother told me, “My sister Dorie told us to go have Tea, that we needed a break.”  I sat with them for a few brief moments and then I went to show my Mom the video of Logan talking about Nanny and just as I pressed PLAY, the iPhone battery died.  I casually said, “It died” (meaning the phone) and my mind and focus immediately went towards Nanny.  This was one of the moments I had prepared emotionally for, but it was still hard.

Six years ago, I held Poppy’s hand as he passed away and it stuck with me, the beautiful feeling of the energy movement – feeling someone pass over to the next stage in their life in a sense.

Over the past few years, I realized and experienced what TRUE love was possible, just through touch or a pleasant thought, positive reinforcement or pleasant story telling opportunity.

I entered the room expecting to hear laboring breathing, but she was peaceful. I sat there and held Nanny’s hand for a few moments, said some prayers and mindful meditation and placed my head and ear over her heart, just to hear it beat three last times. I sat there for a few minutes in shock – I didn’t know what to do, but I kept my calm and wouldn’t let go of her hand until I felt a similar emotional feeling I experienced with Pop just six years ago. Then my Mom walked in…and my focus to comfort her became my main focus. Nanny was already off on her next adventure in life, to reunite with her beloved husband in the after life, in heaven, in her consciousness – whatever awaits us after life, I know she found him.

True Love always forgives and forgets.
True Love always forgives and forgets.

She left this Earth knowing everyone loved her and she pulsated that love in every action, breath and heart beat.  Now, it’s OUR turn to expand our love in our life for our children and future generations. We can SHOW LOVE above and beyond any other emotion on the planet and FORGIVE yourself and others.

Thank you for loving me so much Nanny, thank you for trying to love EVERYONE who ever came into your life as much as you did.  We will make YOU proud, we will make our FAMILY proud and LOVE each other more every day, in every way.  Until we meet again beautiful…hope you are already dancing with Poppy in Heaven (or whatever beautiful place awaits us all). Love you Nanny, always and forever.

Chameleons Turn Grey When Depressed

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Chameleons can change their skin color, but they also change according to mood. Some turn GRAY when depressed or stressed.

What color are you when Depressed?
What color would you be when you are HAPPY?

Leave your feedback below

Meet Super Body Care Founder and Master Aromatherapist, Cheri Heberling – Business Success Case Study with Life Coach Brian Cimins

Cheri Heberling is the CEO and Founder of Super Body Care and Product Creator and a Certified Aromatherapist. In this video, Cheri discusses the history of her company and what motivated her to fulfill her vision. Super Body Care keeps skin healthy in intense athletic environments or for any person that wants the healthiest skin ever!

Super Body Care is a completely new approach to natural skin and body care. Our products are made with pure plant oils of Peppermint, Rosemary, Tea Tree, Lavender, and Bergamot to make your skin the healthiest ever!

Find out more information on Super Body Care at: http://SuperBodyCare.com

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Cheri and Super Body Care has been sponsoring Grapplers Quest since inception. On May 3, 2008, she launched her company at the Grapplers Quest Las Vegas and has been on a tear ever since. Super Body Care recently landed a mega-deal with BodyBuilding.com, which she landed back in June 2012 – check it out here: http://www.bodybuilding.com/store/super-body-care.html – She is a great friend and business coaching client for life, because we believe in everything she does and helps inspire women all over the world. Keep pushing Cheri, the next generation of little girls is waiting to be inspired by YOU!

Here’s a video from a few years back where Cheri was asked about working directly with the whole Your Strategy Coach Team:

Learn more about the “Coaching For Autism” Life and Business Coaching and Strategic Intervention expertise with Brian Cimins here: http://briancimins.com or http://CoachingForAutism.org or http://AutismRadio.org

Parents – The Great Spanking Debate with Thoughts from Brian Cimins, Life Coach

The Great Spanking Debate

OUCH! Despite all the warnings and criticism, four out of five parents still spank their kids. Many experts believe the negative consequences outweigh any behavior benefits. Who’s right? This is a VERY important conversation to have as a couple before situations arise. 
Many couples have HUGE differences of opinions on “spanking” and it can lead to tremendous problems and verbal altercations between parents. It’s important to look at it from all sides and the following PARENTS Magazine article really nailed it on the head.  Check it out at: http://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/discipline/spanking/spanking-discipline-debate

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Parenting Tip: It’s HARD sometimes to keep your cool as a parent during chaotic moments, screaming, sibling rivalries, etc. – before responding or disciplining your child in any way, try to close your eyes, focus on your breathing and take Five DEEP breaths first…just give it a try and reply below with your feedback or results. 
Remember the old saying, “It really takes a WHOLE village to help raise a child” – don’t be so hard on yourself, especially if you are all alone (father or mother).  Keep expanding your mind, focus on improving weaknesses and give new things a try, because there’s always “another way”.  If you want change, but keep repeating the “OLD WAYS”, change is impossible.  You MUST try new things, which might currently lie outside of your “comfort zone” if you want better results.  Remember to tell your kids you love them today and hug them as many times as you can. 
Your Strategy Coach, Proud Parent of Two amazing children and Work-From-Home Dad,
Brian John Cimins

We can all be Super Heroes to our kids, but you got to be there first with Brian Cimins

We can all be Super Heroes to our kids, but you got to be there first. Logan and Kaylee have been home sick this week but I finally got to really focus on them, just as a Dad.

Balancing our work time with family time can be really challenging. Try not to be so hard on yourself – one day they will understand that you gave your heart and soul to both career and family…and it took everything you had – and THEY ARE WORTH IT!

Working from home has always been a challenge – but I finally am figuring out how to make it work and not be the absentee, “always busy” Dad who didn’t have time for his kids.

As parents, we all must realize that there will come a day that if we work all the time and avoid our most important job of all – being parents our children will not become the same amazing people they could and should become.

At the end of your life, images of your children, wife and loved ones will flash to you, not bank statements and piles of money. I’m not saying don’t try to be successful, I’m saying don’t let the endless pursuit of fame and fortune blind you from uncovering your true purpose in life beyond the game of Monopoly that we all enjoy playing so much. Don’t be afraid to dig deep into your subconscious mind…there’s an infinite universe inside your mind.

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RELATIONSHIP Question: Is your marriage Zombie Apocalypse proof? Brian Cimins

Ironically, just last year, the Centers for Disease control created a marketing campaign to help Kids understand the importance of being prepared for anything. The CDC commented, “it’s a fun new way of teaching the importance of emergency preparedness. Our new graphic novel, Preparedness 101: Zombie Pandemic demonstrates the importance of being prepared in an entertaining way that people of all ages will enjoy. Readers follow Todd, Julie, and their dog Max as a strange new disease begins spreading, turning ordinary people into zombies.”

The Centers for Disease Control last year slogan: “If you’re ready for the zombie apocalypse, you’re ready for any emergency.”

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Put the media scare tactic and frenzy aside and honestly ask yourself…

Is your marriage Zombie Apocalypse proof?

As the CDC says, if you are prepared for “anything”, you can get through ANYTHING ELSE together with some guidance, support and most importantly, a blueprint to guarantee success in life and marriage. To help stop the growing panic of many people I coach, I’m going to be posting some Emergency Preparedness Tips to combat ALL of the scare tactics being thrown at us in these trying times.

You are NOT alone!

I’ll be finishing up my relationship improvement book before end of year entitled, “The Warrior Wife Within” and offering free segments here to help strengthen and improve your relationship. I will also be offering coaching sessions starting in January of 2013 to married couples, business owners, and entrepreneurs. We are ALL navigating through life, some have a blueprint, but so many do not even have a plan for their career, let alone their spouse’s happiness or their own desire for a new hobby or sport. Some are lost, some will get help to write their life blueprint, many will not and continue to repeat the patterns of behavior that got them where they are NOW, which might not be where they wanted to be. I help change people’s patterns, their behaviors and re-charge their lives with mastery of human needs alone and have created massive change in many people’s lives in less than 2 hours with me.

Your Strategy Coach,
Brian J. Cimins

P.S. I get results, because I finally found what I’ve always wanted to do in life, “HELP OTHERS”, and my ultimate realization of what my true passion was in life took my “unlimited opportunities” or “sky’s the limit” to a whole different level with a stronger, “infinite universe” or “super-consciousness” level-mentality and frequency. When true happiness and positive energy and proper supplements flow through you, you operate at a different frequency, you think more clearly, you are more productive and you become more successful, guaranteed!

Life of a Promoter – Tough Decisions, Missed Life Events and The Strong Cimins Family that Believes in Me

One of the toughest things in my life is balancing my personal life with my event and time demanding professional life. I’m a huge fan of grappling and love to attend MMA events, but my whole family organizes events around my schedule already, so asking to skip out on other family events is really tough for me. I missed my daughter’s first birthday for UFC Fan Expo 2010, I’ve missed two of my wife’s birthdays and five of my brothers, even missed my son’s 2nd birthday party. Each time, the event was with a partner like the Ultimate Fighting Championship, so I couldn’t control scheduling.  Venues are booking in advance faster than ever and premium dates are few and far between. There are only four Saturdays in each month (five in a couple too), so I’m bound to clash with other “Life” events.

I’m balancing being a father of two amazing children, Logan (4) and Kaylee (2) and husband to an amazing woman who also works at nearly every event worldwide, my wife, Lucia Lee Cimins. If my wife cannot make the event, my cousin Rob Lehman or parents, Paul and Phyllis help hold down the fort.

Sometimes my extended family doesn’t seem to understand how demanding my life can be. I’m not like other people or family members, I don’t work 9-5 and I don’t have a boss. My job requires me to attend events on weekends to support my friends and the sport we all love. It requires 100+ hours of work per week, ten plus days per month of grinding travel – but it’s all worth it because I’m doing what I was meant to do. I’m not “missing my life”, I’m creating a long lasting career, business, brand and tv-ready sport that will forever be known as a pioneer in television, dvds, ppv and live events for the sport of grappling. I’ve achieved my dreams with HARD WORK. Anything is possible, but it takes hard work – and sometimes event tougher decisions.

This Saturday is my first cousin Alina’s Engagement Party and I have chosen to pray that they understand that I must go see the “Ultimate Absolute Grappling in New York on July 30″. My friend Rob Constance is organizing a professional 16-Man grappling tournament with a $10,000 cash prize and $1,000 per submission bonus.  Get more info here: http://ultimateabsolutenyc.com/

I love them dearly and I hope they know that, but my life is grappling and this weekend, I’m going to just be a FAN. I’m used to paying big bucks to get big name grapplers compete and $10,000 for first place is great and I can’t wait to see who turns out in the end. Uncle John, I promise not to miss the wedding and, to Alina and Adam, you know I love you guys. See everyone on Saturday!

Your Grappling Promoter, Brian John Cimins, Founder
Grapplers Quest Worldwide

 

 

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