Great Divorce Quote Image – Children should never be used as weapons of mass deception or destruction during divorce. Parents, please show them more LOVE than ever before to help start the necessary healing process by Brian Cimins

Children should never be used as weapons of mass deception or destruction during divorce. Parents, please show them more LOVE than ever before to help start the necessary healing process – Brian Cimins

Please add more quotes below…parents, please know your children are not chess pieces and there is no checkmate in divorce.

It must be a win-win and the children are confused, sad and heart broken enough already to have to deal with the pain and suffering of the two people they love most on this earth separating eternally.

Please focus on improving yourself, finding your center and helping others during this emotional draining process. There is light at the end of the tunnel and you can BOTH find happiness on the “other side”. Some parents quickly jump into relationships or extra marital because they are lonely before the divorce is even finalized, which can over complicate things even worse. Some parents take their frustrations out on their children physically and verbally which is also completely unacceptable. Love yourself and your babies more than ever and know things will get better soon, just hang in there and don’t cause any more pain and suffering than you’ve already caused.

REAL Love, peace and harmony – Namaste, Brian Cimins

MIRACLES ARE REAL – How letting go of Resentment and Anger and Being a REAL Friend can SAVE YOUR LIFE


One of my friends and I experienced a true MIRACLE that easily either saved our lives or serious injury  While sitting at a traffic light, my friend and I were in deep discussion about how to let go of resentment and anger and replace with forgiveness, compassion and Love.  When driving alone, I’m usually in a rush and hit the gas as soon as the light turns green.  On this day, I was wearing my “Life Coach” hat with an old friend sharing some serious emotional challenges directly from his heart and I was intently focused on his heartfelt words of pain and suffering.  I’m so blessed to have trained for the last four years of my life with Anthony Robbins and on July 18, 2013, it might have saved my life.  I didn’t immediately notice the light had changed to green, but my friend did and mentioned it.  It had been green for probably 3-4 seconds and I glanced to my left to watch a Jeep Grand Cherokee come barreling through the Red Light nearly hitting us.  I slammed on my breaks avoiding a collision.  It was a miracle rather than a slight coincidence hands down.  We were both in shock and promised to “write about it one day”, so I figured I would ask my friend to write a note about his experience as well…

“I would once again like to Thank you and your family for always treating me like family when we are around each other. During an unbelievable deep and cleansing conversation from our hearts about life on Thursday, July 18, 2013 when that extraordinary moment in our life took place sitting at a Red Light. You and I were so caught up in that conversation, you did not go as soon as the light turned green and by the grace of God or a higher power that delay saved us from what I believe could have been a very serious accident when the other car ran the red light. I thought about that a few times since and say again what else could it have been other than a God moment at least for me to save us that day. Blessings to you and the family.  See you soon.  Love you buddy.” – Mike P.  

Please remember a couple of things…

1. Help Others, especially friends in need

2. Look both ways at Green Lights – between Medication, Texting, Cell Phones, Distractions of Life and everything in between – People are NOT paying attention and driving around in 3,000-5,000+ lbs. killing machines while distracted, drunk, high on prescription or illegal drugs…be careful

3. Wholeheartedly Listen to others when they are sharing their hearts with you, the extra 1-3 seconds of focus could SAVE YOUR LIFE (or theirs)

I do not believe in coincidences, everything has a purpose, just like my ability to share this story today, might save one of YOUR lives one day and remember to be the BEST FRIEND you can be.  Everyone suffers, most of us, quietly, inside our own minds, afraid to share to the world the true pain and suffering we endure each day. 

Keep helping others, open up your mind and soul to true healing by talking through your personal challenges in life.  The life you save could be your own…

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